The quality of each of these lipsticks ensures that you won’t come back up looking like a sad clown after making someone cum. There isn’t anything quite like lipstick to make me feel ultra-femme — with the exception of liquid liner and a perfected cat-eye. My Sephora cart is pretty much always littered with a...
Category: Sex Positivity
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Masturbation Tips for your Queerest, Sexiest Spring Ever
Masturbation, more than any other sex act, is a time to be completely selfish and all about yourself. May is here, which means that it is finally National Masturbation Month! You may have seen the memes or innuendo-laced content swirling around social media, but this month is more important than you may know. Masturbation Month...
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#AskCam: Why You Should Embrace Sex Resolutions For 2018
What sex resolutions are you dedicating to making for yourself this year? The new year is upon us, and there’s something about this time of year that has a particular magic to it. The start of the year offers the chance for so many beginnings. Everywhere we look, we see reminders to drink more water,...
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21 People Share Their First “Best” Sex Stories
Forget the very first time you had sex, here are 21 stories of the first time 21 people had their “best” time. By Ally Sabatina Virginity stories are tired. Over. They don’t mean anything. Virginity is fake. What we know now holds not one candle to what we thought we knew when we were young,...
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An Inclusive Porn Guide for the Marginalized
Porn is a pervasive industry. Our most marginalized performers should be among our highest priorities and finding their material, generating exposure for them and delivering them fair wages should be a whole lot easier. By Ally Sabatina We’re here to talk about porn—not the run of the mill exploitative hand-me-down porn Jason Biggs and his...
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Demisexuality Is Not A Quirk Or A Fetish
Many demisexuals have sex. Many demisexuals desire sex. Some demisexuals don’t desire sex often. Some demisexuals are repulsed by sex unless they are “close” to the person. What is a demibisexual? A demibisexual is a demisexual bisexual person. Some may find this contradictory. I do not because I have been attracted to both women and...
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#AskCam: Celibacy Is A Valid Choice
Welcome to #AskCam, a column where sex and intersectionality are not divided but welcomed together. Dear Cam, I’ve always been a sexual person, but I haven’t been dating in the last few months because of life – school, work, family, that kind of thing. Because of this, I’ve been unintentionally celibate for a few months, and...
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How Sexuality Is Crucial For Intersectionality: An Introduction
Ask Cam is not going to be a sexuality column that you’re used to – it is a space where sex and intersectionality are not divided but welcomed together. As intersectionality becomes more of a buzzword and an opportunity for mainstream (*ahem* white feminism) to co-opt Black-specific labor, I can’t help but see similarities between social...
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Sex Education Centers Whiteness — And It’s a Problem
Sexuality is for everyone, because we all deserve to feel pleasure. It’s long past time for sex education to make race part of the conversation. There are few times when I am not aware of my identity as I move through the world. As a young Black, cis, femme; I’m constantly thinking about the ways that...
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It’s 2017. Why Are We Still Shaming People With STDs?
Why do we continue to make jokes at the expense of those with STDs like herpes, when they’re practically as common as colds or the flu? I love Trevor Noah’s The Daily Show. Especially in this political climate, it’s great to watch a humorous take on the news. So naturally, I was excited for Trevor’s...